In a recent appearance on TV3’s New Day Show, media personality Berla Mundi took a stand in defense of young men facing challenges in relationships due to the increasing presence of older men, commonly known as sugar daddies, vying for the attention of their girlfriends.
Expressing her concerns, Berla highlighted the unfairness of this trend, emphasizing the added pressure it places on young men striving to foster meaningful connections with their partners. She argued that the financial support and lavish gifts offered by sugar daddies create an uneven playing field for young men attempting to build relationships based on shared goals and aspirations.
“There is a burden on young men. As a young man, you are competing with a 60-year-old man who probably can afford all the things a girl your age would like. Meanwhile, you are hoping that you and that girl can build a life together. Unfortunately, the girl is also aiming higher and expecting an iPhone 15 when you don’t even have iPhone 12 yourself,” Berla Mundi remarked during the show.
Her comments shed light on the complex dynamics at play in modern relationships, where external factors, such as financial capabilities, can influence the course of romantic partnerships. Berla’s advocacy serves as a call to address the societal challenges that contribute to these disparities, urging a more level playing field for young men navigating the complexities of love and commitment.